So many assume romance novels are trashy, shallow reads. Let's face it: some are. However, I have to wince when the romance novel takes the hit by this description. It's a sweeping generalization based on a specific form of the genre written to appeal to the baser escapist inclinations of certain readers - of which there must be plenty because "trashy romance novels" sell well.
But, romance novels can also be squeaky clean, scrubbed bare of any sexual references or admitted attractions. Or they can be more realistic without graphic instances of sexual encounters and portray spiritual upright storytelling. Those who don't read the genre often assume the worst from them because of the prevalent and infamous covers of those labeled "trashy".
I like to think - and say - I write love stories. The technical aspects of this clarification simply mean they tend to be longer than the typical romance novel with a less rigid formula. This designation isn't a rap against romance novels, it simply implies the lengthier development of characters beginning, pursuing, or involved in love and the relationships that follow. My stories always investigate the spiritual dimensions of characters without judgment and intentionally attempt to make each type of character authentic.
There's a segment of us Christian authors who do not write "squeaky clean" because our task is to bring a different focus to the relationships without bringing "the trash". We occasionally take criticism from the "clean and chaste" crowd for our work, and I'm sure if the readers who prefer the more risqué novels read them, they would criticize them from the other end of the spectrum.
Defending the romance novel doesn't gain a lot of traction, but a good romance novel will give readers a slice of life where love is featured through complex circumstances of human attractions and behaviors. Nothing wrong with exploring relationships in story form. Good romance novels demonstrate the vulnerabilities and emotional responses people feel and face when developing a meaningful relationship.
Unless of course it's a trashy romance novel . . .
Father, you're the author of romance, the definer of love, the administrator of relationship. Help us to dive deep into understanding what you have designed for each of us. In the Name of Jesus, Amen.